It’s hard to know exactly when debauchery started but it seems that his practices are as old as the world. Whether, during the Roman era, the Middle Ages or during the famous era of the eighteenth century, orgies, banquets or games gave way to a real liberation of manners.

We will hear much less about it later but it is in Europe, during the second world war, that will develop the concept of “key parties”, evenings during which the men mixed the keys of their rooms to be chosen at random by their wives.

The sexual liberation during the 70s will bring another concept: that of sexual community that changes the rules of the game, no longer advocating the preservation of the couple as is the case in swinging.

Today, and for a good fifteen years, the number of swingers clubs or sites dedicated to its practitioners continues to increase, showing a real desire to break the sexual routine while preserving his couple. If you can’t satisfy all your hidden desires with xxx video, sharing wives can open new horizons for your couple

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Some figures:

Men are 4x more represented than women with 16% against 4% of women. Moreover, people would be the ones who would make the most love in the presence of other people: 17% against 10% to 13% in neighboring countries.

In terms of social classes, they are all represented, and there would be as many young people as older, contrary to what we can believe.

Swinging, what is concrete?

It is a practice of sharing your wife with another man to share new experiences.

Are there steps to follow?

If you get to make this finding of sexual boredom, it is above all important to take the time to talk to two. Have you really done everything to wake up your sexuality? Your sensuality? Are there no other ways to act before considering such a step for your couple? Would you really be willing to see your partner in the arms of another person and enjoy it?

To think about it is one thing, but to see it is another then concretely address all these facets before going further in your path. In addition, and more individually, do not hesitate to think about your desires: would you do it for you and your couple or to please your spouse? In which case would things be right?

Once this step is done, it will be necessary then to establish your respective rules: do you need to meet other couples before going further? or on the contrary not to create a link before the sexual encounter? Is it just pleasure of the eyes or can we go to sexual intercourse as such? Everything has to be said … this will allow you to realize more concretely what can happen, and therefore check that you can handle these situations when the time comes of sharing a wife.

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What are the benefits for the couple?

For those who have “dared to go the distance”, it appears that their sexuality is awake, that the desire and excitement of wife sharing psychology is again at the rendezvous. The couple finds a kind of second youth, the two partners being then re-eroticized, more attractive and discovered differently.

Moreover, the notion of a couple is preserved, in the sense that the objective is to give it a “whiplash” and not to be in a logic of authorized infidelity. It is a common project, a search for couples and places that we do together. We prepare, we share our feelings, whether before or after.

The game of husbands who share their wives seduction is also reinvested, even some fantasies put into practice in a context where one dares to let go. Some taboos can also fall to give way to more letting go and therefore more fun.